The Blending Place Podcast

Navigating Divorce // Toni Part 1

Episode 4

I visualized it like sand that you’re trying to cup in your hands and it’s just falling between your fingers and you can’t stop it. You can’t slow it down. That’s what my life felt like through that period of separation and then divorce. 


-Toni Allman

Show Notes:

Summary + Minute Moments


Toni Allman had one son with her first husband before they divorced. Later, she remarried and has since had three more children with her current spouse. In Part 1 of our interview, Toni shares her experience of navigating divorce within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Join us for Part 2 as we talk about what it feels like to be the biological mom that has to share her child with a stepmom.


0:51 Loss of Control

3:08 Anger

3:54 Counseling & Returning to School

7:19 Feeling Embarrassed & Playing the Victim

8:54 Accepting Help

10:43 Dating Again

13:02 Facing Bitterness



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